
It has been almost exactly two weeks since Uncle W.L passed away unexpectedly. Until last week i hadn't seen him, my aunt and cousins in over twenty years. Many things were said about my uncle at his funeral. Much was said of his contributions and accomplishments, all of which made me very proud. I know i was not the only one who felt this way. Because of the soft-spoken, gentle man he was, i believe Uncle W.L. would have been most touched by what was shared by his children and nephew who spoke of the man i remembered. They are the ones who shared accounts of the loving husband and father and Godly man. They also remembered his sense of humor. These were the very things i appreciated most about him. As i listened to everyone share i was so impressed with the legacy that this humble man left his family. I hope and pray that i will be able to do the same when my time here is done. Another thing that struck me is the sad fact that it took my uncle's passing to bring our families together again after all these years. Upon hearing the news of Uncle W.L.'s death my thoughts turned to Aunt Sue,Linda,David and Michael. Because of the distance between us; we lived in Alabama, then Tennessee while they lived in Florida, we didn't see each other a lot but when we did see each other we always enjoyed our time together. Pretty soon we grew up,had families of our own and moved in other directions. Before either of us realized it, twenty years had passed. Our time before and after the funeral was too brief and then it was time to go our seperate ways again but not before promising to keep in touch. It is my sincere hope that we all live up to our promises before another twenty years passes us by.
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It is so easy to let time get away from us. I have relatives that I will probably never see again because my mom was probably the only reason they ever bothered to keep up with me. Now that she's gone, they don't return my phone calls or anything. I'm thankful to have at least one cousin to whom I'm still close.
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your uncle but glad that you got a chance to reconnect with your family.
Mandy, thank you. I am so sorry about the situation with your relatives. It is good to know you have your cousin and i hope that relationship continues to flourish! Love,charis
Just wanted to offer my condolences for your uncle. No matter the age or how close or far away, loosing a family member is never easy. I also wanted to let you know how much I have been enjoying reading your posts about the challenge!
Yes it was nice to meet cosins that had never seen me and i have never seen them. but so sad that it was not the vacation that we saw them i wish could have met the man that you speak of that was a Godly man. i know he was a great father,man,grand father,uncle,and human.I wonder what he looked like a lot. im so sorry for great aunt sue and ant linda i wish i could had none all of them better!
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Thanks Michelle, for everything, the challenge and your kind words. Please stay tuned i will have the rest of my results posted in the next few days... Rachel, you are so sweet and you make me so proud to be your mama! Love you!
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