Showing posts with label reassurance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reassurance. Show all posts

Friday, October 31, 2008

No Makeup, no Costumes and no Candy

The choice not to celebrate Halloween in our family is a matter of personal conviction. I do not wish to judge anyone who does observe this holiday, it is not my place to do so. Most of my friends celebrate and i do not express my opinion on this matter unless asked to do so. It was not until i had children of my own that i was convicted not do Halloween, yet i do remember many Halloween nights as a child and wonder if i am cheating my children now. But the more i learn about the origins and history of this day the more i am convinced i am doing the right thing. Jeremy and i have always been open and honest with the children and they have accepted our decision. When my children ask why some celebrate while others do not i tell them that not everyone is convicted in the same way. This always opens up interesting conversation on spiritual matters and why we believe what we believe. They amaze me with their wisdom and insight. Tonight as we ate pizza at their favorite restaraunt the discussion was brought up again and as we shared there was laughter and enjoyment all around the table. No makeup, no costumes and no candy but happy memories were made just the same. Thank You, Father, for reassuring me once again.